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Posted: 04 August 2022 at 05:56 \| IP Logged

Therefore it is incorrect to think that homosexuality is
only a preference for anal and oral sex The essence of
homosexuality is to fix the sexual object on the body and
mind of the same sex not to fix the sexual goal on a
certain organ We do not agree with Freud that
homosexuality is the fixation of sexual desire in the
anal stage because sex can not only be regarded as a
psychological Flushometer
valve process but also includes communication and
sharing with others The whole idea of sex as only related
to the organ is as Kinsey points out the product of
poverty and illiteracy As heterosexuals we disapprove of
homosexuals' choice of sexual objects but we insist that
the main part of sexual life should be regarded as the
choice and pursuit of sexual objects as a complete
individual and shared life not just as a physical or
psychological process

The basis of this view is that sexual life like other
aspects of life can find its origin in physiology or even
primatology (see Naked Ape) which is not the task of
sociologists In Western society the two most important
factors that distinguish the various behavioral
characteristics of homosexual groups are gender that is
whether a person is gay or lesbian and the proportion of
long-term cohabitation of the former is far less than
that of the latter The other factor is whether the
identity is open or not that is whether a person is
openly gay or secretly gay The life of a closet
homosexual has been likened to a "life in the closet"
that is a life of double identity; being openly gay has
been likened to "coming out of the closet"

Those who are not openly gay are derided by openly gay
people as "canned fruit" also known as "squashed fruit"
which satirizes them as people squashed by social norms
None of our respondents were "open homosexuals" in the
Western sense Even those homosexuals
Flush valve price who
are very active in society or even well-known (so-called
well-known is not a real name but a nickname) do not want
their families and friends to know their true orientation
Although some of the people who are close to them may
suspect their true inclination (the families of a small
number of people who have been sentenced or sentenced to
re-education through labor or detention for homosexual
acts can certainly know about it) they are reluctant to
take the initiative to let people know about it The
results of the survey show that the vast majority of
people do not let their relatives and friends know about
them Brothers and sisters colleagues and leaders only a
few colleagues and brothers know the truth Although in
the survey also encountered many exceptional cases
someone told his true situation to his family and said "I
am such a person I can not change"

In Chinese society there is a time when this secret will
be revealed that is when the age of marriage is reached-
because almost all healthy men in China want to marry so
not marrying will arouse suspicion Some of our
respondents are already married some are preparing to get
married and only a few are really ready to live a single
life for life None of the men were gay with the consent
of their wives and none of them were heard of throughout
the survey Therefore it can be concluded that
homosexuality in China must be or will be a secret
activity behind the back of the woman (wife or
girlfriend) So there is a problem of how to treat and
deal with the marriage relationship ＷＷＷxiＡosＨuoＴᦅ 6;
Ｔcom Section 1 Unwilling to get married Small Say txt
God Don Section 1 Unwilling to get married When it comes
to marriage all homosexuals are reluctant
Flush Retrofit Kit
Most of our respondents are not married Although most of
them intend to get married when they are old they hope to
get married as late as possible The reasons why
homosexuals do not want to get married can be summed up
in several ways First in the minds of homosexuals getting
married is a matter of "falling price" A homosexual a
said to his new homosexual partner B "I don't like people
who get married I don't think they are human B has been
hiding the truth from me" But later out of affection for
a B confessed his feelings to him Armour listens to anger
say "I also do not see you again later" B returned home
grief-stricken in a letter to a incoherently expressed
his feelings for a and his ambivalence about his marriage

The letter reads Please believe me I will always love you
until death do us part I'm already married I always feel
sorry for you My marriage is painful and I don't know how
to save it Please understand me now my heart is almost
broken I'm a married man and I'm very upset when I
mention these words I feel depressed I'm sorry for you In
another example a gay couple vowed never to marry until
they were 30 years old I met a worker who was one year
younger than me and had a crush on him He also liked me
and we fell madly in love This love lasted until he
Concealed Flush Valve
got married I gave him permission to marry Originally we
had an agreement that we weren't allowed to get married
until we were 30 but once he and I had a quarrel and I
agreed to let him get married Another gay man said "I
have a friend who has a beautiful girlfriend but he
didn't want to get married until he was 29" Secondly
Marriage is also an obstacle to the emotional maintenance
of homosexuality A senior homosexual in the community
says

"People in the circle all think that they are unmarried
and they value being unmarried They think that people who
are married will not be able to achieve their energy"
Because once homosexuals really love each other they are
also very sincere and single-minded emotionally so
marriage will become an obstacle to their feelings "I met
a man in his thirties who said he wasn't married" one
respondent told us I may be lying to me I don't dare to
be sincere to him If he gets married it will destroy my
feelings 。 "As soon as I heard he was married I hated
him" another gay man said of one of his love affairs He
made a wish to get rid of his wife so I gave in to him
His wife comes back on the weekend and leaves on Monday
and she usually stays at her mother's home I can tell
from his body that he hasn't had sex with his wife But he
told me that he had sex with his wife five times after
marriage and I didn't believe him 。
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